love and relationship advice

Dear Deb,

What is the true difference between a best friend and a girlfriend (besides one's more affectionate than the other)? I always seem to fall into the friend category or the "sex buddy" category. But I never really get stuck in the girlfriend category. Why?? What is it that girlfriends do, say, act, etc...? Also, things that friends don't do for the man or the relationship??

Cute1

Dear Cute1,

Although I don't believe in being someone that you are not ... try putting some of your "niceness" on hold or save it for your female friends and family. Try to be more of a sexy woman that is available but not needy. Flirt and have fun. Let guys do things for you. Hold back a little on being so giving.

Deb

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