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Dear Deb, I am a happily married professional and a Mom, but lately I've been attracted to another man. Without going into detail, he's someone that I see once a month (because of the nature of his job). I only enjoyed his stimulating company and sense of humor until recently, when I had a romantic dream about him and now I can't get him out of my mind. We've started e-mailing each other, and the topics are friendly, profound, and soul-searching. I suspect from the tone of his messages, rich in possible double-meanings, that he may feel an attraction as well. (I know he is thinking about divorcing his wife, as the two of us were counseling another guy about not rushing into marriage and this fact came out.)Why? I'm not sure, but I get an incredible high from flirting with him. Although I have no intention of leaving my husband or destroying our family, I keep thinking if I could just have one passionate kiss, I could get him out of my system. (Plus he's transferring to the West Coast next month and I'll probably never see him again!) But would that be cheating? Just a kiss? I don't even know if we'd get the opportunity, but lately I've become a little obsessed with this idea. I'd just like to know that he feels the same. I will also be hosting a farewell party for him at my home, but he does not know this yet. I know this CAN work because I once had a crush after I got married (while my husband and I were working in different countries) and ended up kissing him and that was all I wanted, and after two days, I didn't even want to see him anymore!What should I do? I don't WANT to forget him and just concentrate on my marriage; this is too exciting. Is it necessarily THAT destructive? Kay |
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Dear Deb, I think I might be pregnant. I have this funny feeling and my period is late. I am 15 years old and my parents would kill me if they found out. I don't know what to do. Please help!!! Scared and worried |
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Dear Deb, My Mother-in-Law was talking to my husband (her son) and she said "I love you so much my heart aches for you." What does that mean? He is an only child and his Mom and Dad are married but not happily married. My husband visits her every other day and she cries when my husband leaves. Please help me! Is she in love with him? Am I at a dead end in this relationship? Pam |
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Dear Deb, I met this guy a year and a half ago. We had dated about 5 months soon after we met. He had a divorce a little before we met (and has nearly a 2 year old child). Thus a mistake on my part for even going there that soon. Since then we've been good friends. More recently (within the past 3 months) closer and closer friends. We are intimate off and on. Recently he told me that he wants to be just friends. We are very much like each other: we have the same hobbies, share interests, views, values, morals, goals, etc...so much it's scary. We get along famously, have fun no matter what, never fight, think the world of each other, would do anything for each other, etc.... Basically, all the foundations of a GREAT relationship. The real back-fall is that I want a serious relationship; he wants to be just friends. At one time we were more than that. I guess I don’t understand how we could have all these things and him have this small piece of the puzzle missing the "romantic" feeling. We share the same bed and even kiss each other good-bye. On top of all of this, he is kind of interested in another woman he just met a couple of weeks ago. I guess I don’t see what she has or could offer him that I don’t already have. I know a lot of people would kill for a great relationship like ours...why doesn’t he? I guess I can't see why he is fascinated with this new woman, and doesn't see anything but a best friend in me. Help...any advice on the subject itself and how I can aide him to "see the light" would be helpful! Seriously Puzzled |
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Dear Deb, I was wondering what your opinion was on having male friends if one is married. For me it would be for emotional support and to do some fun things. I don't always get everything I need out of my marriage and I think this would keep me happier as a person.
Your thoughts? Sue |
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