http://deardeb.com com_fireboard en-us Sat, 04 Sep 2010 17:11:37 -0400 http://deardeb.com/components/com_fireboard/template/default/images/english/emoticons/fb_rsspower.gif http://deardeb.com 88 http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=25&catid=3 This has trouble written all over it. I don't think she would like it if the shoe were on the other foot (perhaps you should remind her of that). "Just a Kiss" can lead to more, and she shouldn't have exchanged phone numbers or added him as her friend on Facebook. That's not normal behavior for a married woman and you have every right to be concerned. Deb... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=24&catid=3 someone she just ment that night!... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=23&catid=3 I'm confused too. Was this someone she knows or someone she just met? Deb... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=22&catid=3 My wife recently went out this past weekend and she ended up kissing another guy. She did tell me, about it but I really didn’t know how to respond. I’m glad she told me. However, it seems like it was no big deal to her, she said it was just a kiss and she was drunk, but I don’t understand why she would in the first place. What am I missing, not only that she did get his number and gave her number to him. She added him to her facebook, he knows that she is married. Am I reading too much into this? Was... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=21&catid=2 Well, how nice to know that she would like to go out with you if she didn’t have a boyfriend. I know it’s not the best response you could have gotten, but it's better than a flat out no ot interested. My advice now is to go on with life, but don't give up totally on her. Don't avoid her or the store. You should still be nice to her and a little harmless flirting wouldn't hurt either because you never know ... one day she might not have a boyfriend. But don't stop "living" or put life on hold waiti... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=20&catid=2 Thank you so much for letting me on her to talk. I found out that she told someone that "if she did'nt have a boyfriend" THATS THE STORY OF MY LIFE. So should I just get on with everything? Or should I still TRY and persue her? Thanks again for being so nice... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=19&catid=2 Hello, I think you did the right thing by telling her she was STUNNINGLY beautiful. What was her reaction? Did she smile? Did she blush? Falling in love and being in love are WONDERFUL feelings. I definitely think that you should not let fear get the better of you. Life is so much richer when you have someone to share it with. You have so much life ahead of you, it would be a shame to pack it all in and just decide to live alone to avoid possible hurt. Now, even with that said, there are no... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=18&catid=2 Hello, all. I'll cut to the chase. I am a 32yr old male. The last time I was in ANY kind of relationship was almost 3 years ago. She broke my heart, ripped it out of my chest. I have been so scared of the same thing, that I refuse to meet anyone. Wel, there is this girl that works at a local store, over a yr ago, I started noticing her. Whever I would kind of glance over at her, she was already looking at me, and we always lock eyes for a few seconds (sounds high schoolish I know) Well, just recently... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=17&catid=2 Dear Kay, I'm happy to hear that you are thinking about the big picture. Just keep reminding yourself to stay strong and resist temptation. Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing. Deb PS - here is a link to the original letter: http://deardeb.com/read-letters/12-is-just-a-kiss-cheating.html... http://deardeb.com/community.html?func=view&id=16&catid=5 Darlene, I can't stop thinking about you. Why should it matter if your best friend likes me ... we could be good together. Please give me one more chance and say you'll go out with me again. Phil...